Monday, March 16, 2015

Prosaic Work Connects People and Changes Hearts

Chapter 21: The Meanings and Blessings of Family Work

Elder Neal A, Maxwell said, "We must look carefully, therefore, not only at life's large defining moments but also at the seemingly small moments. Even small acts and brief conversations count, if only incrementally, in the constant shaping of our souls."

Few things in life are as small, simple, or of seemingly little value as the everyday tasks we do for family members.

"Family members may not notice the cumulative impact of these small moments, but the daily repetition of words and actions that accompany such work help form basic character, virtues, and beliefs."

"Family work thus reveals a profound potential to strengthen and heal relationships. Performing mundane yet essential tasks for those who cannot do so for themselves can create, in the absence of pride, a precious connection between giver and receiver. As we figuratively touch each other at the simple level of everyday need, routine acts of service begin to mend feelings and foster unity."

Successful marriages and families: proclamation principles and research perspectives
By: Hawkins, Alan J..
BYU Studies and School of Family Life, Brigham Young University
2012

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